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It’s all good?

June 25th, 2012

When we declare something good, it doesn’t mean it’s all good. There is a phrase that has been around for a while that shows this.

“It’s all good.”

I wish I knew where this phrase originated. I want to know the situation in which the person spoke. Why am I interested?

It’s not all good.

There are people who think of ways to destroy you and they don’t even know you. That’s not all good. There are people whom you will come to trust who will betray you when you least expect it. That’s not all good. What can you do?

When we say, “It’s all good,” though we know deep down that it’s not all good, we say the words like some kind of magical chant in order to convince ourselves that it doesn’t matter. Yet, we know it matters.

Perhaps we don’t think anyone else cares enough to actually be concerned that it’s not “all good” in our lives. Yet, there is one who does care. It starts with being open and vulnerable to him. How?

We become the kind of people who can care. When Jesus transforms us from the inside out, then we can see things through his eyes for the first time. Then, we don’t declare, “It’s all good,” but we can say with confidence, “There is hope and it starts with Jesus working through me.”

What do you need to be completely honest with God about? What is holding you back from opening up all the way to him?


 

sinking into the role

June 21st, 2012

In 2005, Jaime Fox won an Oscar for Ray. The acting was so good; it’s as if he was Ray Charles. You could say, Fox really “sunk into the role.”

In the language of the Bible there is a word for this “sinking into.” enduo. Romans 13:14 reads,

Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ…(Romans 13:14)

We are to literally, “sink into” our role as followers of Jesus. This doesn’t mean we try to look like him on the outside. Did you know there are still groups of people who wander around in robes and sandals warning about the end of the world?

They think they are supposed to look like Jesus. That’s not the point. It’s not trying to look like Jesus (who knows what he looked like anyway?) that is important. It’s sinking into the role of being like Jesus on the inside.

To clothe yourself with Jesus is part of that inside/ out process we have been talking about. We become like Jesus on the inside so that the things we do on the outside are done as Jesus would them if he were we in any given situation.

Imagine what Jesus might have looked like?


 

Using a little “won’t” power

June 20th, 2012

“I am not going to get angry anymore. No, really I’m not. This time I really mean it! I AM NOT GOING TO GET ANGRY!!”

Whenever we want to change something about ourselves, the direct approach is usually the way we choose to go. We try “willpower.” It might as well be “won’t-power” because the direct method almost never works.

We can’t convince ourselves to change. For a while it may be possible. Then we come under stress and our changes change back. The harder we try the more frustrated we get. What is the problem?

The problem is commonly labeled, “Self-help.” Every self-help magazine article tells us that we can do it. Go to Barnes and Noble and check out the “Self-help” section.

If you can’t lose weight/ be friendlier/ be more confident in five easy steps, then there must be something wrong with you. “After all,” the author seems to say, “If I did it and wrote a book about it, then you can, too. Not write the book, of course, but you can change.”

So, why don’t you?

To change from the inside out doesn’t last on our own power. We need something more. Recovery groups like AA know this to be true.

They teach that you have to give yourself over to a higher power to be sober. You can’t fight unhealthy behavior directly. Alcoholics can stop drinking when they place their trust outside of themselves. This is a great start and if they want to do more than just get sober, they can live a transformed life by opening up to the Holy Spirit.

Jesus designed us and so, naturally, he holds the key to lasting change. Where could you use change in your life right now?


 

Who said, “Seeing is believing?”

June 19th, 2012

There really is no such thing as “science.” There are many different fields called “sciences,” but there is no theory that wraps them all together. Though there are scientists who make claims for a “theory of everything,” no one has come close.

Did you know that about 96% of the universe is composed of two things that astrophysicists label “dark matter” and “dark energy”? We know they are there, but can’t see them or directly measure them.

In other words, only about 4% of what most astrophysicists trust exists can be observed and directly measured. The other 96% is assumed based on the evidence of its effect. It appears that the vast majority of existence is considered reality through trust based on evidence.

Trust based on evidence. Does that sound familiar? It should. This is a good definition of faith!

What if God is real? What if God is the creator of all reality? Then if the sciences are considered our ultimate guide to all of existence, we miss out on the very center of life, God himself.

God is not physical, yet God exists. If God exists then there are dimensions to our lives that may not be physical but are real. If God is real then an education based on the sciences alone would miss out on the most important information of all. Knowledge of God would be absolutely essential. Without studying God, we would be, well, uneducated.

How can we have any knowledge of God if we can’t see him?

We don’t seem to have trouble claiming knowledge of a lot of stuff we can’t see. Like, maybe, 96% of everything?

What are reasons people give for not thinking there is a God? Which argument is the strongest?

 

Let’s Face It…

June 15th, 2012


It’s always hilarious when you see a news account of people who look like their dogs. There is research1done on this topic that reveals it is not that dogs and their owners (sorry, “caregivers” in LA, guardians in SF) resemble each other over time. It is more likely that the dog owner consciously or unconsciously chooses a pet with similar characteristics. We have a lab/ German shepherd mix named, “Nala.” She is a sweetheart of a dog, like my sweetheart, but when she snarls, she resembles the boy’s and me, on occasion.

I do think we take on the appearance of someone over time. Ourselves. Who we are on the inside begins to reflect more and more on the outside. I remember the story The Picture of Dorian Gray, by Oscar Wilde. Dorian is able to live a wild and crazy immoral life without physically affecting him. Booze, sex, destroying the lives of others- you name it, Dorian did it. Didn’t seem to age him a bit. Stayed the same young, good-looking guy. His secret?

He had a portrait of himself that would take in all his sin. It got uglier and more sinister looking. I won’t give away the ending in case you haven’t read it, but let’s just say Dorian found out the truth.

You begin to notice that about people. Those of us who have been around a while show who we are on the inside by what we look like on the outside. Our faces take on smile lines or frown lines. Anger, like a twisted plastic surgeon, etches pain felt and pain dished out. Botox is no antidote for bile.

So, what do you do? Changing the inside changes the outside. You have a choice in life. There is a God who forgives what’s on the inside so you can be transformed into the kind of person who will shine with his glory on the outside. You are more than just your physical body.

Look closely at your own face. Especially around your eyes and the corners of your mouth. What do you see?


 

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two keys to following Jesus

October 1st, 2004

If attending worship alone is not the path to becoming more Christlike, then what is? Dallas has much to say on this. The key is not to attempt spiritual growth head on. This is not a diet and exercise program. This is not “if I just pray, read the Bible, join a small group, and have a quiet time then I will grow” discipleship. O, you would be wise to do all those things and more, but you will resist doing them because your human self will tell you it is impossible to keep at it. Kind of like your diet and exercise program. A lot of good intention but not much follow-through.

The two keys to being a disciple are this.

1. You understand why it is a good idea to face your life as Jesus would face it if he were you.

Why would you want to become more like Jesus? What did he say? ‘If you live like me you will lose your worries and face anything in life completely safe.’

Wow! Really? Yes

2. You actually want to live life in this way.

You have to make a conscious choice to want to follow Jesus . You have to arrange and rearrange your life to put yourself in the position to learn from Jesus in any way you can. This means some obvious things like praying, studying the Bible, helping others out. And some other things that are not so obvious like actually doing what he commanded.

Take revenge for instance. Can you become the kind of person who doesn’t take revenge? Try it. For a month, do not try to get even with someone who has wronged you. Do not strike back.

I will write more on the keys to being a disciple.

do something

September 26th, 2004

Dallas Willard spent yesterday at our local church teaching a group of men and then a group of pastors. When Dallas speaks you always come away more in awe of Jesus. What an unusual quality. Usually when someone of such prominence in Christian circles speaks you come away in awe of the speaker.

Here is one of his gems.

“Jesus said, ‘Without me you can do nothing.’ To which he could add, ‘And if you do nothing it will certainly be without me.’”

The Christian life is working with Jesus. It is not being “saved” by him and then just sitting back and wait. We are to fulfill our destiny in his plan. We are to do something. When we make ourselves available Jesus can take over with his power.

Dallas uses the analogy of power steering. I am old enough to have driven cars without power steering. So, the comparison works for me. Without power steering, you are pulling on that wheel pretty hard. There are times when two hands are called for. With power steering, you still have to start the turn, but then the power takes over. You can steer with one finger, but you still have to move it before the power takes over.

Jesus provides the power, but you still have to do something.

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