How To Be A Christian Without Being A Jerk

Faith in real life

positive and negative

August 24th, 2004



Negative campaign ads are normal during elections. I read the other day that they are remembered way more vividly than positive ads. Obviously with a finite amount of money for ads, we are going to see negative ads.

This is an important consideration when you are sharing your faith with someone. If you show the weakness in other viewpoints, speak about the logial inconsistencies of others, and so forth, you will be more influential, right? Not so fast. There is a tension, here. You see, if you are negative, you likely have a wall being set up by the other person. Even if you are right. Which brings us to the most important rule of thumb when it comes to sharing faith. “Do you want to be right or do you want to be helpful?” If you want to be right, don’t share. If you want to be helpful, then you can be.

Making a positive case for your evidence and allowing the other person to be the one who brings up challenges in other viewponts is the way to go. There are ways to make this likely. I will speak more about this.

life from non-life

August 23rd, 2004



There are some things that are so obvious, you don’t even think about them. But of course, this may be a challenge if you are seeking understanding. Take the basic mechanisms of Darwinian evolution. Natural selection necessarily needs something to select from. Genetic mutation needs something to mutate. What in the world would that be for the origin of life? This is one of the key unanswered challenges to Darwinian evolution. It is striking in it’s simplicity. How can natural selection or genetic mutation be the evolutionary mechanisms of first life? How do you get life from non-life?

discipline

August 22nd, 2004

Read an article in Sports Illustrated about the “best” high school football team in the nation, De LaSalle High of Concord, CA. They haven’t lost since 1991. 151 wins in a row. So, how do they do it?

The players are allowed to express themselves. Each is given the opportunity to decide how he should practice. They have consensus building sessions every Thursday to prepare for the next game. The players help choose the play strategy. Then, on game day they have periodic play calling reviews during timeouts…

No, not really. Just unbelievable discipline and focus. These can be fairly helpful in much of life. Really.

August

August 21st, 2004

I started my call as a pastor 22 years ago this month. I can’t remember the day; could be the 15th. But, I didn’t really think of it. In fact, this is the first time I can think of when I didn’t think of it. Weird.

It’s not a countdown to retirement. I can’t imagine what that term means. I do have a sense of discomfort knowing there is so much I wish to be part of and will God keep me healthy enough to thrive? If this is what is called “half time,” then why can’t it be “a third of the way?” If I am going to reach my 90′s I don’t want to stop thinking. Connecting. Influencing. Leading. I’m just starting to get in the swing of things, now. I have a lot more learning time coming up. Third of the way, it is.


who knows?

August 20th, 2004

I prayed with a group of pastors again today and I was reminded of one of the challenges we face. This small group of leaders seems authentic to the core. Each one has a heartfelt desire to reach others with the good news of Jesus. So what gives? Wrong style of worship? Wrong methodology? No sense of urgency? Maybe, but I don’t think so. Maybe I’m asking the wrong question of the wrong people? Maybe I should ask the potential Christian why he isn’t one, yet.

“You aren’t a Christian? Really? Tell me more.”

Church Leaders Lead Churches…Really

August 19th, 2004

Hugh Hewitt’s In, But Not Of is a great book for young people, high school and older. I found one section particularly helpful. It dealt with being a pastor or church leader. Hewitt called on us to stay out of speaking on political issues in our church role. I, for one, probably read as much as anyone on current events and the situations we face as Americans at this time. I think Hewitt is absolutely right. No matter how eminently qualified we think we are, we aren’t. Not really. We have such a dangerous job fallout of thinking we know everything about everthing. It’s hard enough speaking on practical matters of faith filtered through God’s Word, let alone trying to speak about issues of state. Issues of which we have so little real information available to us. Issues on which we have no promise of the guidance of the Holy Spirit.

think again blog

August 18th, 2004

This will be a blog experiment giving me an opportunity to record what I am thinking about and see if this might be of any benefit to anyone else. Following the model of thinker, Bob Buford, I am going to use these four guidelines:

1. Build on the islands of health and strength

2. Deal only with the receptive

3. Only do things with a big kingdom payoff

4. Focus on what I am for, not what I am against

Let’s see how it goes.

How To Be A Christian Without Being A Jerk

Faith in real life