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Are you a wise man or wise woman?

January 6th, 2010

In Christian tradition, today we celebrate "Epiphany," which is the revealing of Jesus to the world. In particular, this celebration has been connected to the movement of the message of the good news of Jesus with the "Magi" or "wise men" back to their country of origin (thought to be Babylon or modern day Iraq). This is the first spread of the message of Jesus to the Gentile (non-Jewish) world.

If you are a wise man or a wise woman, you will look for how God is revealing himself in your life.

"I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me." (Proverbs 8:17)

Happy travels…

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a few thoughts on University of Miami football…

January 4th, 2010

Couldn't get enough football this week, so I watched a documentary on the University of Miami Hurricanes football team on ESPN. It is amazing to me how much these teams have changed the face of football. Much has been touched by Miami's influence. For example:

Anything that has to do with trying to stop players from celebrating, making intimidating gestures and such- these rules are mainly responses to Miami.

Bringing these to same types of celebrations and gestures to the NFL- mainly by Miami alumni like Michael Irvin, Ray Lewis, etc.

The ongoing question of sports programs making so much money for the university, with the players limited in what they can receive in benefits besides tuition.

Just the whole plethora of racial issues that resulted with so many Black players on one team raising havoc against "respected" (mainly white) programs like Notre Dame, Nebraska, and Texas?

This culminated in Miami actually not receiving the #1 ranking at the end of the 1991 undefeated season in the Coaches Poll after beating Nebraska 22-0 in the Orange Bowl. Washington the other # 1 in the polls was also undefeated, though the Coaches also may have been responding to Miami's thrashing of Texas in the prior years Cotton Bowl 46-3, in spite of 9 unsportsmanlike conduct penalties! Taunting, bravado, OK, it didn't sit well with "purists", but running up the score? It was OK for Notre Dame to do this for all those years, but not these guys…

Speaking of Notre Dame, who had bitter experiences against Miami, who can forget the wonderful Christian attitude of Notre Dame fans using the theme of "Catholics vs. Convicts", with the press joining in. This was in 1988 when both teams were undefeated. Miami lost 31-30, with the controversial call of a fumble at the one yard line by Clevleand Gary, even though all replays clearly show the fumble occurred after he was down. Oh, well, it is Miami.

How is Miami doing today? 15th ranked Miami lost to #25 Wisconsin in the Champs Sports Bowl 20-14. With no controversy.

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our new 21 year old…

December 28th, 2009

Spent yesterday celebrating Kristina’s birthday at Disneyland. No, she wasn’t born at Disneyland, but choose the Magic Kingdom as the venue for her 21st. The whole family went, along with her friend Kelsi. It’s a Small World and Yo Ho might be the most famous songs, but I can think of a new one:

It’s a Long Day

as in,

It’s a long day, after all…

The highlight for me is arriving back home around midnight and briefly talking to Kristina before bedtime. Quickly recalling what happened back in 1988 that precipitated the Disneyland trip in the first place. The most humorous memory is having a cold when she was born and so her first couple of days of life on the outside, she bonds with a dad wearing a mask.

Hmmm,,,Maybe this is why this is one of our favorite Simpson’s scenes…

 

Happy Birthday plus one, Kristina!

 

 

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Truth and Fun…

December 23rd, 2009

"Seeking the truth, at all possible cost, with courage and consideration, and inviting others to do the same."

I did a mission statement exercise several years ago, and came up with the above phrase as my personal mission statement. It still holds true today.

There is absolute truth that comes to us through Jesus. He is the source of all truth. I don't lay claim to knowing Jesus 100%, but I do lay claim to knowing enough.

I know enough to know that experiencing his presence and learning from him how to live my life as he would live my life if he were me is enough to have my life transformed. It is my mission to invite others, who are receptive, into this same life.

There is more to me, however.

In another exercise I participated in this year, we were asked to come up with one word that would be a description of our view of life. The word I came up with is,

"Fun."

Through all the struggles, challenges, and setbacks of life "enjoying the ride," is important to me. Same goes for times of triumph, confidence and joy. I want to have fun in the process and I want to take others along for "the ride."

I guess a combination is in order.

"Seeking the truth at all possible cost, with courage and consideration, and inviting others to do the same, with much fun all along the way."

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5 Answers to the Question, “Are you ready for Christmas?”

December 18th, 2009

Here are five personal answers to a common question asked this time of the year-

 
"Are you ready for Christmas?"

  1. Since my Myers-Briggs Personality Type is ENTP, understanding the "P" in me, you will already know the answer to the question.

    Therefore, if "Are you ready for Christmas?" means, "Am I done shopping for family and friends?" you realize this isn't a meaningful question until next Thursday morning.

  2. My mother-in law and father-in-law are coming Saturday, and so I am getting ready to be a host and a guest of mom's great cooking, Also, I am ready to listen to them tell the kids what they should be doing about their lives. Grandparents' prerogative. There will be an "eye-rolling festival" coming real soon…

  3. Considering it is Nancy's birthday on Sunday, that is the focus at this point, of course.

  4. Considering it is Kristina's birthday on the 27th, the countdown isn't to Christmas, it is nine days to go until she turns 21. I know this because she has reminded us every day recently. When your kid turns 21, what happens? Will, my gut just drop over my belt for good and I have to go out and buy Sans-a-belt pants in four different styles?

  5. If you mean "Am I ready to celebrate the incarnation of the Living God into our space/ time dimension, ripping an opening to heavenly eternity? Or simply, "Am I ready to celebrate heaven?" Ala Dallas Willard's, "Heaven is God breaking into our reality?" If that is what you mean then the answer is-

    "YES, YES, A THOUSAND TIMES, YES!!

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my major essay on climate change…

December 17th, 2009

My friend, David Householder, recently asked for comments on global warming, and I wanted to be helpful. Also, I wanted to come at this topic from a slightly different angle. Enjoy…

An immediate disclaimer
: I am primarily of Danish descent. My great-grandfather was a businessman in Racine, Wisconsin, which has the largest population of Danes in North America (back off, Solvang). Our family name was spelled in the Danish fashion, "Hansen." My great-grandfather changed it to "Hanson" and used this as a business branding technique. "Hansen with an 'O'."

Interesting that his gravestone, which I have seen, reads, "Hansen." He probably just didn't want to continue in eternity misidentified.

Now let's talk about Denmark. The UN Copenhagen Climate Change Conference is in session. Undoubtedly, you have already heard about these proceedings. What you may not know, however, is the strong presence in Denmark of scientists like influential physicist, Henrick Svensmark, (who actually just had a heart attack in a climate debate in Denmark this week!) and organizations, like the Danish Space Center. 

These Danes are on the leading edge of those who are questioning some of the research and conclusions being drawn concerning "climate change."* So, having the UN conference in Denmark is deliciously, quite "ironic."

It's not that Danish scientists are hard core climate change deniers, or, My Lord (more appropriately, "Not My Lord"), far right religious fanatics (Denmark has one of the highest percentages of self-professed atheists in the world and traditional religious practice there by the Danish population is virtually non-existent).  No, they are not right wing nut jobs or religious zealots.

They are just Danes.

Stereotypically, Danes will not be browbeaten, guilt-ed, politically correctivized, or talk downed to. I guess Viking genetics is still alive and well. This "stubbornness" and "tenacity" can bring about blessing or curse.

Blessing, in noble causes, like the fact that every Jew living in Denmark during WW II was saved from the Nazi's by the Danish resistance who orchestrated their escape (Unless the Jewish Danes refused the help and chose to remain in country. Some of them were murdered. As a result of their bravery and compassion (or stubbornness), still today, Danish people are called, "Righteous Ones" by many Jews and Jewish organizations).

Or, curse, as in the case of holding on to depraved values, no matter what anyone else thinks. Like the fact that bestiality is legal in Denmark and there are actually animal brothels!

Stereotypically, Danes follow the beat of their own drum. So, when you have a Climate Change Conference in Copenhagen, don't be surprised you also have an alternative conference sponsored by the Danish group, Climate Sense, with speakers from the Danish National Space Center, among other Danish science organizations.

Then there is also the small matter of Bjorn Lomborg, to contend with. This is the Bjorn Lomborg, the leading critic in the world today, of the methodologies being considered or chosen to address climate change.

And a Dane.

If Al Gore is the face of climate change, Lomborg is his doppelganger. , Bjorn Lomborg is the best known, and most often quoted skeptic in the world- The world of proposals by scientists and governments, of human responses to combat the negative consequences of climate change . Lomborg is the author of the famous (or infamous) books, Skeptical Environmentalist and Cool It!. Lomborg is hardly a climate change- denying fanatic. One Lomborg quote will suffice:

"Global warming is real, it is caused by man-made CO2 emissions, and we need to do something about it. But we don’t need action that makes us feel good. We need action that actually does good."

No, not a fanatic, he just thinks this issue is so politicized that we are going down exactly the wrong path. Not a "flat earth," anti-scientific fundamentalist-

 - but he is a Dane.

My favorite Lomborg story happened in 2007, when Al Gore was riding the wave of "An Inconvenient Truth," and traveling to promote the book and film. He agreed to an interview by Lomborg (who was guest reporter for the largest Danish newspaper, "Jyllands-Posten"), while he was touring. The interview was set up months prior, and then suddenly canceled the day before! It appears Al Gore and Gore's agent didn't know who Bjorn Lomborg was until the day before the interview!!

The world's leading skeptic of some of the research and conclusions touted by Gore in "An Inconvenient Truth," and Vice President Gore and his agent had never- heard- of- Bjorn Lomborg. It would be like the Red Sox not knowing Derek Jeter…  Priceless!

No interviews and no general press conferences.

No one allowed to inconveniently ask questions about "An Inconvenient Truth." This was the procedure adopted by the Gore tour. Except Mr. Gore forgot one thing. 

Lomborg is a  Dane.

Here is Bjorn Lomborg getting a chance to connect with Vice President Gore, after all. Two years later. A little defensive, perhaps??

Don't take my word for it. Do your own research. Here is one of Lomborg's websites. You decide how fanatical he is.

What does this have to say about the global warming debate?

First, when someone like Al Gore, who I am sure considers himself well-meaning and a man of goodwill in all of this controversy (no sarcasm, I really am sure he is not trying to bring in some sinister conspiracy to rule the world, or something), says something like, 

"It's kind of silly to keep debating the science,"

then I know this topic is not going to go away anytime soon.

No honest scientist with integrity would ever make such a statement on an issue so complex, unless there is another agenda at work. That may be why Vice President Gore received a "Nobel Peace Prize" instead of, oh, say, a Nobel Prize in Physics…

Second, you couldn't have absolutely picked a worse group of people to try to verbally manipulate, scientifically ostracize, politically strong-arm, or culturally ridicule.

I mean, has everybody forgotten this so quickly?

* "When did "global warming" become "climate change," you ask. I'm happy to oblige.

The term, "global warming" is not currently in vogue and has been replaced by "climate change." Probably due to the fact that global temperatures have been cooling recently. So, even though this is considered a temporary blip in the trend where temperatures are definitely getting warmer, "climate change" is a no-brainer because it covers all bets. Global temperatures increasing or decreasing and, voila, you still have "climate change."

It's kind of like betting on "black" and "red" at a roulette table. You win either way. Well, not really, you simply break even…but, wait a minute, you get free drinks while placing those bets and so you do win!

Except you forgot about STUPID "0" and "00" coming up and losing all your bets, anyway. But, you will go to the sport's book and bet on horses and drink free anyway. Sure, just put 2 dollar show bets on carefully selected "Best Bet of the Day" favorites and drift away on a Vegas afternoon…Except, do you know how many times favorites don't come in??**

** I have all of this on good authority from a friend of mine who had this experience, and though I don't understand all of this gambling stuff, I believe him…

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