Words are essential. Jesus is called, “The Word” (John 1:1). Words create all of existence. God spoke all energy, matter, space, and time into being. “Then God said…” So, where does this leave us?

Be careful with your words. Jesus tackles verbal manipulation next in his list in the Sermon on the Mount. Simple, clear, unambiguous language is called for in our relationship with each other. No trying to get your way by tripping someone up with what you are saying. No trying to persuade using verbal tactics. In modern terms, disciples of Jesus don’t use “spin” to get their way.

Matthew 5:37 (NLT)

Just say a simple, ‘Yes, I will,’ or ‘No, I won’t.’ Your word is enough. To strengthen your promise with a vow shows that something is wrong.

How different than the way society operates. Whole businesses are, in part, based on nuances and extreme language. It is only too obvious to mention the political season we are in. Or who will ever forget this quote, “It depends on what your definition of the word, ‘is,’ is.”

In the middle of all of this bombardment of “words weapons” Jesus says, “Stop.” Disciples don’t need to fret about words. When your life is centered on Jesus, you are perfectly safe to “just say, ‘No,’ or, ‘Yes,’ for that matter.” I don’t need to try to get you to see my way using technique. I can be open to you so you can clearly see where I am coming from. If we don’t agree, fine. Let’s stay in relationship we will discover what Jesus is up to down the road. When you aren’t anxious over what is being said or left unsaid you are able to live within the strengths of your best true self.